Loneliness

A heavenly trip …

I had a chance of visiting ma grandma’s home which is a typical village where we can find all sorts of old customs. I loved being there though I had some different experiences. I was used to city traditions of doing things from morning till evening. But when you go to such kind of villages you might feel surprised and some kind of nostalgic feeling. It’s because there are lots of things that turns you on from our lifestyle. Let me list it down:

  1. I was used to get up around 7 am in my place. But there people used to get up early morning at 5 am and begin their routine works. Kinda difficult for me coz those people doest stop by themselves getting up, they force us to get up too 😦
  2.  I haven’t seen the sky so beautiful and felt the fresh air touch my skin making me feel so energetic in my place. I used to come out of ma home only after 9. Its weird actually but this is what happens to most of the people living in cities.
  3. I saw greeneries wherever I turn around in village. So much pleasing to eyes watching plants and the due drops on the leaves and flowers and the tiny plants that took up its head for a new beginning. Nature is really lovely 🙂 . In ma place greeneries are only seen in televisions rarely 😦
  4. What the hell is this??? I cannot see houses as far as I could see. During night time I was just freaking out by the solitude home stay and the weird sounds of frogs and many other unknown creatures. I was hell-stuck in the night time and for sure I haven’t slept even a single minute. But that was quiet a different experience in daytime as I started enjoying the solitude staying. Coz in cities we could see houses build clustered and roads congested. But it’s totally a different world out here.
  5. The best and final thing is the people out there. Where are they from?? So much of love, care and affection from each and every single people I look at though we are not related to each other. Their innocent and childish hearts attracted me and I felt sad leaving that place.

I had a bit of experience for being in a heaven though it was for just a single day. Am not sure whether I would go to heaven after my death but am sure I had experienced how staying at heaven would feel like.

Below are few shots I took with my mobile…

This was the first shot i took when i got up at 5.30 am…

This is the grass you can see which was around the house…

This was the side view of a beautiful sunrise from the house…

These are the coconut trees that are grown before the house… Cute nah 🙂

Its the Watermelon !!!

Its the watermelon plant grown over the roof of the store room…

This is the picture i took at 6 am… Can you find the difference between half an hour before sunrise and after sunrise? Such a lovely scene 🙂

Finally i have to say you all one simple yet valuable thought… Please do visit your grandparents in villages which might take you to heaven and also make them happy 🙂 🙂 🙂

Divorces are made at hell…

Hello all,

I have recently seen people getting married and getting divorced sooner, not even waiting for an year of time. But why does this happen? It does not depend on the country or people with cultural differences. It happens due to the human minds getting dumped with various unwanted fantasies which leaves their marriage life a big question mark…

In older days people were aware of the customs and bonds a marriage offers the two within a relationship. The love, warmth, happiness, sacrifices, adjustments and many other criterion’s were merged together under a relationship. But in this modern era people run back of money, name and fame. They find their life is contented with such unrealistic pleasures which may pass away at a particular period of time. There is no eternity for these pleasures.

Once their time of unrealistic pleasures passes away they are left out alone with loads and loads of grief, fear and sadness filling their heart. There wont be any children or grandchildren to play with them, make them laugh, disturb them asking bedtime stories or walk them home from school. All that remins is a silent house, unspoken words and lacking eagerness for joy and pleasure.

Do the people who get divorces easily think of their family and kids? I hope the answer is a big NO. Once if there are some sort of arrogant or violent behavior from the partner there is a need for divorce which may act as a big relief to both the parent and the kid. But changing minds and acting irresponsibly by both leads the child to a state of psychological illness.

According to the Indian law the following aspects are been taken for divorce:

  • Adultery
  • Desertion
  • Cruelty
  • Impotency
  • Chronic Disease

Other than these any kind of act is not considered as an offence under the Divorce law.

Compared with other countries India has the lowest divorce rates says a survey. But it also emphasizes the fact that the divorce rates has increased double the amount over the last five years. We people are made into a bond to have a long and peaceful living. Keeping aside all our ego’s, worldly pleasures etc might make us have a stronger bond with love and affection. Love all and love your family above all 🙂 🙂 🙂

A Feast !!!

Hello all!!!

After 3 long years i met my good old friends a few weeks back and had a good time with them together 🙂 It was such a lovely and memorable day which can never be erased from my heart forever 🙂 Thanks all for making be a happy person and love ya 😀

The get-together was arranged by a good friend of mine. She was already married and her hubby made all the arrangements for us to meet. So sweet of them 🙂

We reached the reserved Hotel by 11 in the morning. It was such a quiet and peaceful place that was portraying as also the best place for a hangout for friends. As you all know we girls made lots of hussy fussy and made a huge mess around the hotel corridor. A few people who came there to have a peaceful lunch was irritated by our mess. Sorry guys !!!

After a long chit chat with our friends we had to move on for having our lunch which was planned to have a meal as it was ordered already. Whatsoever the lunch may be we all are least concerned of it. All we want is to spend a valuable time with our lovable friends. So we had the lunch at 4 in the evening and i took few snaps which i need to keep it as a memorable one 🙂

The most interesting part in the meet is that many of my friends were married and they came with their kids. But for our disappointment the kids where terrified seeing a huge crowd of girls and started crying for help. Poor little ones!!! So they were sent home with their hubby’s and we really had a great deal of time to spend with our dear ones after a long gap. Was more excited and happy 🙂 🙂 🙂

Friends make our life colorful and they bring sunshine to our life 😀

We started our lunch with a celebration!!!

Guess none of us tasted it even a bit and instead it was fully covered up over our face 😀

Then comes the lunch 🙂

Starting of with the soup(Guess its tomato soup. Found it by seeing this pic 😛 )

Its a kind of masala papadam i guess (Not sure ! )

This was the complete lunch pack with an extra bowl of rice. It wasn’t good but we had a fulfilled lunch with our good old friends… 🙂

The fact is i had food poison after eating this lunch. But still i love the day and the amount of fun we had 🙂

P.S : I returned back home only at 7.pm with a mild sadness that got hold of my heart.

Photography Week – Flowers

Flowers are what makes us feel peaceful when we are in distress.

Flowers are what makes us smile when we are in pain.

Flowers are what makes us remember the happy moments when we have a huge fight with our beloveds.

Flowers are what makes us feel relaxed when we are under pressure.

Flowers are what the peace makers of our hurry-bury lifestyle.

Flowers are what accompanies you in times of Loneliness.

Do have a flower on your table at work to make your work a peaceful one 🙂 🙂 🙂

This week is dedicated for the flowers in my photography week.

Hope you all enjoy this flower week photographs 🙂 🙂 🙂

Do provide your valuable comments 🙂

Temple – Black & White Week

Am not used to visit the temple and the God in their places. Will just be having a glance and a short note of prayer when i happened to pass by the temple. But i realized how it felt to be a devotee to the God in his own name and obtain the peace and serenity in life as we have peace and silence in the Temples. When am obsessed with a lot of trouble i had few opportunity to visit a nearby temple which gave me a feeling of peacefulness which i lacked to be sensing it for a very long years 🙂 God really helps people 🙂 I do believe in God 🙂 🙂 🙂

This picture was taken by me in on a Bangalore visit. I don’t remember the name of the temple but quiet remember that the temple was quiet a heavenly experience with so much of peace and calmness prevailing around 🙂 🙂 🙂