I have recently seen people getting married and getting divorced sooner, not even waiting for an year of time. But why does this happen? It does not depend on the country or people with cultural differences. It happens due to the human minds getting dumped with various unwanted fantasies which leaves their marriage life a big question mark…
In older days people were aware of the customs and bonds a marriage offers the two within a relationship. The love, warmth, happiness, sacrifices, adjustments and many other criterion’s were merged together under a relationship. But in this modern era people run back of money, name and fame. They find their life is contented with such unrealistic pleasures which may pass away at a particular period of time. There is no eternity for these pleasures.
Once their time of unrealistic pleasures passes away they are left out alone with loads and loads of grief, fear and sadness filling their heart. There wont be any children or grandchildren to play with them, make them laugh, disturb them asking bedtime stories or walk them home from school. All that remins is a silent house, unspoken words and lacking eagerness for joy and pleasure.
Do the people who get divorces easily think of their family and kids? I hope the answer is a big NO. Once if there are some sort of arrogant or violent behavior from the partner there is a need for divorce which may act as a big relief to both the parent and the kid. But changing minds and acting irresponsibly by both leads the child to a state of psychological illness.
According to the Indian law the following aspects are been taken for divorce:
- Chronic Disease
Other than these any kind of act is not considered as an offence under the Divorce law.
Compared with other countries India has the lowest divorce rates says a survey. But it also emphasizes the fact that the divorce rates has increased double the amount over the last five years. We people are made into a bond to have a long and peaceful living. Keeping aside all our ego’s, worldly pleasures etc might make us have a stronger bond with love and affection. Love all and love your family above all 🙂 🙂 🙂