Month: September 2011

Divorces are made at hell…

Hello all,

I have recently seen people getting married and getting divorced sooner, not even waiting for an year of time. But why does this happen? It does not depend on the country or people with cultural differences. It happens due to the human minds getting dumped with various unwanted fantasies which leaves their marriage life a big question mark…

In older days people were aware of the customs and bonds a marriage offers the two within a relationship. The love, warmth, happiness, sacrifices, adjustments and many other criterion’s were merged together under a relationship. But in this modern era people run back of money, name and fame. They find their life is contented with such unrealistic pleasures which may pass away at a particular period of time. There is no eternity for these pleasures.

Once their time of unrealistic pleasures passes away they are left out alone with loads and loads of grief, fear and sadness filling their heart. There wont be any children or grandchildren to play with them, make them laugh, disturb them asking bedtime stories or walk them home from school. All that remins is a silent house, unspoken words and lacking eagerness for joy and pleasure.

Do the people who get divorces easily think of their family and kids? I hope the answer is a big NO. Once if there are some sort of arrogant or violent behavior from the partner there is a need for divorce which may act as a big relief to both the parent and the kid. But changing minds and acting irresponsibly by both leads the child to a state of psychological illness.

According to the Indian law the following aspects are been taken for divorce:

  • Adultery
  • Desertion
  • Cruelty
  • Impotency
  • Chronic Disease

Other than these any kind of act is not considered as an offence under the Divorce law.

Compared with other countries India has the lowest divorce rates says a survey. But it also emphasizes the fact that the divorce rates has increased double the amount over the last five years. We people are made into a bond to have a long and peaceful living. Keeping aside all our ego’s, worldly pleasures etc might make us have a stronger bond with love and affection. Love all and love your family above all 🙂 🙂 🙂

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Mahmud of Ghazni

Once when i was doing my school education i like my History subject a lot. It depicts the life and war of the ancient time Kings and Queens. I love reading ancient histories as it gives me a profoundness regarding my own country India. It also portrays the rich Indian culture and various strong men who fought hard for saving our Mother India.

I also loved hearing about great warriors and Emperors who fought to capture our country. They all knew the value of our mother land and had a great zeal towards the wealth and rich natural resources of our country.

One such emperor who attracted me was  “Mahmud of Ghazni”. He was one of the Ruler who attacked us and captured our country. But he had a vast difference from the other Kings. He with a wish of having our country did not stop his invasion until 17 time.

1000 AD: Indian Frontier Towns

1001-03 AD: Jaipal, Peshawar

1008: Anandpal

1009: Invasion of Nagarkot [Kangra]

1014: Thanesar

1015: Kashmir Valley

 

1018-19: Mathura and Kannauj

1021: Kalinjar

1023: Lahore

1025: Somnath

Inspired by his strongest will power i drew his picture for the first time. It was my first drawing of a person. Though it isn’t appealing i liked it as i came to knew the fact that even i can draw a bit 😀

 

 

A Feast !!!

Hello all!!!

After 3 long years i met my good old friends a few weeks back and had a good time with them together 🙂 It was such a lovely and memorable day which can never be erased from my heart forever 🙂 Thanks all for making be a happy person and love ya 😀

The get-together was arranged by a good friend of mine. She was already married and her hubby made all the arrangements for us to meet. So sweet of them 🙂

We reached the reserved Hotel by 11 in the morning. It was such a quiet and peaceful place that was portraying as also the best place for a hangout for friends. As you all know we girls made lots of hussy fussy and made a huge mess around the hotel corridor. A few people who came there to have a peaceful lunch was irritated by our mess. Sorry guys !!!

After a long chit chat with our friends we had to move on for having our lunch which was planned to have a meal as it was ordered already. Whatsoever the lunch may be we all are least concerned of it. All we want is to spend a valuable time with our lovable friends. So we had the lunch at 4 in the evening and i took few snaps which i need to keep it as a memorable one 🙂

The most interesting part in the meet is that many of my friends were married and they came with their kids. But for our disappointment the kids where terrified seeing a huge crowd of girls and started crying for help. Poor little ones!!! So they were sent home with their hubby’s and we really had a great deal of time to spend with our dear ones after a long gap. Was more excited and happy 🙂 🙂 🙂

Friends make our life colorful and they bring sunshine to our life 😀

We started our lunch with a celebration!!!

Guess none of us tasted it even a bit and instead it was fully covered up over our face 😀

Then comes the lunch 🙂

Starting of with the soup(Guess its tomato soup. Found it by seeing this pic 😛 )

Its a kind of masala papadam i guess (Not sure ! )

This was the complete lunch pack with an extra bowl of rice. It wasn’t good but we had a fulfilled lunch with our good old friends… 🙂

The fact is i had food poison after eating this lunch. But still i love the day and the amount of fun we had 🙂

P.S : I returned back home only at 7.pm with a mild sadness that got hold of my heart.

…Cassia Fistula

I was driving to the Departmental store for purchasing in the usual way. But i found something so lovely and colorful this time. Its the CASSIA FISTULA flower… We call it as KANNA POO… But when i googled i found this biological name for this flower 🙂

I was so surprised seeing it as i havent seen this for years of my travel in the same road… Guess i must be less concentrating over the nature on my way    😦 Anyways i was happy to see this and took few shots without the intimation of the owner of the home in which i found this flower. So i was in a hurry and only two of my clicks where good… Was a bit disappointed but still loved it 😀

…Abrus Seed

Have you ever heard of KUNDUMANI??? Not known of it? We in South India used to call the ABRUS SEED as KUNDUMANI… Its one of my favourite collections… I love the color of the seed and a crazy lover of collecting these seeds. I have a huge collection of this seed. I gave a few of it for my sister as she wished to present her friend by making her name out of these seeds 🙂 🙂 🙂

This was how she made it in a cardboard sheet and presented her friend 🙂

We might all have seen this seed but many might call it with different name in each city…

Its called in the following names : ‘John Crow’ bead, abrus seed, black-eyed susan, buddhist rosary bead, coral pea, coral bead plant, deadly crab’s eye, indian bead, indian liquorice, jamaican licorice, jequerity seeds, jequirity bean, jumbie beads, licorice vine, love bean, lucky bean, prayer beads, precatory bean, red beadvine, rosary beads, rosary pea, weather plant, wild liquorice.

Bengali : guñja

Gujarati: રત્તી ratti

Hindi: gumchi, गुंची gunchi, गुंज gunj, ratki

Kannada: gunja, gulagunji

Konkani: मनजोटी manjoti

Malayalam: kunni, madhumulam

Marathi: गुंज gunja, khaksi, मधुयष्टि madhuyashti, रती rati

Sanskrit: गुंजा gunjaa, kakachinchi, मधुयष्टिका madhuyashtika, रक्तिका raktika, रती rati

Tamil: குந்து மணி kundu mani, குன் றி kun yi, குன்றிமணி kunyimni

Telugu: గుంజ gunja, గురిగింజ guriginja, రక్తిక raktika

The origin of this plant and seed is in India and also from tropical areas of Asia.

Its pretty nah 🙂 I just love to play with it in my childhood and now i have it as my collection 🙂